Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Three Spheres of Love


Introduction
Man is made of three parts –spirit soul and body. The most important part is his spirit, the most obvious part is his body and the most neglected part in love is his soul.
Physical Love
Much of our love is simply physical. Your body needs physical food. Where there is true love physical food is included. I love you will not work when you are hungry. A man who loves his family will provide for them (I Timothy 5:8).
Other necessary physical provision according to the Lord include food and cloth. The atmosphere will not lovely with unpaid bills and no necessities.However,  God is able to provide all of this (Matthew 6:25-34).
Much of what the world sings as love is physical lust. It is that love that uses and dumps. It is that love that does not last and can easily change. It is temporary, always ends in sorrow and has no commitment.
True physical love is found in the context of marriage it does not just include sex but most importantly it includes a commitment to ones partner and the taking of responsibility of children that are brought up in a marriage.
Here are questions that will help you understand and evaluate yourself.
1.        What are you doing to make sure there is always food in the house?
2.    Are you over due on your rent?
3.    Are you over due on your water bill?
4.     Are you over due on your light bill?
5.    Are cloths worn-out?
6.    Have you taken more than a year without buying new cloths?
Spiritual Love
Spiritual Love here refers that love that flows from your spirit. The spirit is the most important part of man because it is seed of your motive, intentions and desire. The genuineness of your love comes from this place. True love is sincere and in deeds and not mere words.
Many love among boys and girls in hypocritical because it just wants to get what it desires. It motives is wrong, the person may smile at you but when you leave it will mock you. The greatest question in love is, “what is the motive of the action?” There is a hunger in everyone’s heart to be sure that his loves really love him sincerely.
Here are some questions that can help you examine this area of you love
1.      What can you sacrifice for your love one?
2.     What is your motive of being good to your spouse?
3.     Do you sincerely love your love your love one?
4.     If there is marriage after life will you marry your love one?
5.     Is there an area you are pretending or covering up form spouse?

Soulish Love
The third and most neglected love is the Soulish love. The word for soul in the Bible is the word literally translated psyche. It refers to the mind, emotions and thoughts.. This is friendly love.  This love is thoughtful and wonderful. It thinks about the one it loves. It puts such a one in the equation of things. It consults with such a one before it does things. A friends slap is better than an enemy's kiss.
It is most emphasized before marriage and the most neglected love in marriage. A little self examination will do one some good I am sure.
1.      How many decisions did you take today in consultation with your spouse?
2.     Are there decisions that you think are either too big or too small to involve your spouse?
3.     When returning home today did you remember to get something for your spouse?
4.     When was the last time you went out for an outing with your spouse?
5.     When was the last time you told your spouse that you love him or her?
6.     What are things that your spouse enjoys that you love simply because you value your spouse?
7.     Do you cherish your spouse because you value the Lord?
8.     The way you are behaving to your spouse now if that was the way you behave before marriage, “would he have married you?”
Conclusion
Love must be sincere and complete. The physical, spiritual and soul must feel love. Most of the problems in Christian marriages can be trace to soulish. We have stop befriending our spouses after marriage. What made us special to them is no longer seen. What we need is to get the Lord involve. Let us ask him sincerely and constantly how to love our spouses and he will help us. You can constantly pray this prayer. “Lord, I do not know how to love my spouse. Help me to see things the way you see them. Help to be sincere. Above all help me to follow your part in this marriage, Holy Spirit bring everything in my life in obedience to Christ in Jesus name, amen.”  
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Thursday, October 10, 2013

Ten Descriptions of Love


1. Love is patient and kind 

2. Love is not boastful or arrogant

3. Love is  divine

4. Love Never fails

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 5. Love always hopes

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7. Love never passes away

8. Love is the greatest of all virtues

9. Love cannot be sold or bought

10. Love is desirable always

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Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Ten Ways to Prevent Divorce

1.Forgive all the offense. Holding malice, that is holding offense in your mind, recording,  and constant mentioning of offense will lead to divorce. Please forgive and forget. Divorce does not happen over night.

2. Be grateful for your spouse. The more you appreciate God for your spouse the more you will see the reason why you had to marry your spouse.


 

3. See your spouse as a gift. Every human being is a divine gift, your spouse is particularly a special one to you.

4. Stay faithful.  There are other attractive men and women out there. The beautiful ones are  yet to be born but, do yourself a favour and choose to cherish and enjoy your spouse.

5. Give and receive appreciation. Appreciate whatever good thing that your spouse does to you whether big or small. There are many that are not doing such.

6. Ask for forgiveness. I am sorry is a healer and prevent compounding of issues that in turn leads to divorce.


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7. Contribute financially to the family. Money is necessary for survival. Where there is love and money life will be comfortable. Where there is no money it makes it hard for love to survive. Money is not everything, but it is necessary for necessities

8. See your partner as human. You did not marry an angel, you married a person. Human are bound to err in most cases due to misunderstanding, misjudgement and misguidance. We do not deliberately err in most cases therefore give room for misunderstanding.

9. Ask God to help you to stay together. Unless the Lord help you, you are helpless. He alone can help you to prevent divorce. Let the Lord be your everything.

10. There is no perfect family. Every family has one problem or the other. Solutions to problems in marriage are a process and not things you can just fixed over night. There may be a certain area that you do not understand but hold on, God is in control.

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Saturday, October 5, 2013


Ten Simple Verbal
Expressions of Someone
 That Loves You


　

1. I am sorry is a language of love
Someone who loves you will be quick to apologies. He does not want to offend you. However, we are all human beings and we can err.  "I am sorry" is an emotional healer.
　

2. I wish we will not part is a language of love
Someone that loves enjoys your presence and  does not wish to part with you or you will feel that you do not want to part with him.


3. When can we see again is a language of love

Someone that loves you will like to know when you can see again when you parting. He or she will most likely ask, "When can we see again"

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4. It is pleasant being with you another language of love

This is one of the expressions of someone that is enjoying being with you. When you love someone you enjoy being with him. Love is a mutual feeling.

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5. I miss you is yet another language of love

True love makes you feel the absence of your love one when they are absent. Expressing this to your love one is one of the most loving things you can do.
6.Thank You is still another language of love
Always express you appreciation for every good, kindness, gentleness, help, service and sacrifice offered. Express your love verbally by saying, "Thank you."

7. Please can I help you is another language of love
The two most important words in this verbal expression are "please" and "help." Everyone needs help nobody is an Island. Someone that loves you will include please in his request of help.
　

8. Please help me is a language of love that  relates to number 7

Someone’s loves will be expressed in his request by kindly asking you to help him when he needs one.


　

9. I will pray for you

Someone who prays for you loves you. Taking your needs to the Almighty God is an act of love. Therefore when someone tells you that I will take you need to God in prayer or I will pray for you I found out that it make one to feel loved.
10. I love you
This is the highest expression of love. Before you reach this point if some has been expressing all the other languages of love mentioned above you know he loves you.

 
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Thursday, October 3, 2013

Ten ways to show love by action

Ten Ways to show love by Action
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 1. He is cheerful when he sees you. You presence lift his countenance. He wants to be where  you are .

2.He wants to come close to you.If he knows you will be in the library he will like to be there.

3. He buys you gifts. Loves values a person by showing him kindness through things like bringing one gifts.
 4. He cherishes your presence. He admires you and enjoys your being with you.

5. He smiles at you when he sees you. Smile is a sign of love because people who love each other will definitely smile at each other.

6. He may actually feel  like or  sometimes cries when you are absent particularly if you travelled so far like overseas

7. He prays for you. Prayer is something that people who love each other do for each other

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8. He is patient with you, he can wait for you. Patience is a sign of love. Patience results from understanding and being accommodative.


9. He wants you to go out with him. He may be shy but in his heart he wants the world to see you together and to know that you belong to each other.


10. A kiss or a hug is an action of someone that is in love. This should be controlled and done in marriage because there is the need for a full time commitment in order to go this far in expressing your love in action.

 



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