Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Ten Ways to Prevent Divorce

1.Forgive all the offense. Holding malice, that is holding offense in your mind, recording,  and constant mentioning of offense will lead to divorce. Please forgive and forget. Divorce does not happen over night.

2. Be grateful for your spouse. The more you appreciate God for your spouse the more you will see the reason why you had to marry your spouse.


 

3. See your spouse as a gift. Every human being is a divine gift, your spouse is particularly a special one to you.

4. Stay faithful.  There are other attractive men and women out there. The beautiful ones are  yet to be born but, do yourself a favour and choose to cherish and enjoy your spouse.

5. Give and receive appreciation. Appreciate whatever good thing that your spouse does to you whether big or small. There are many that are not doing such.

6. Ask for forgiveness. I am sorry is a healer and prevent compounding of issues that in turn leads to divorce.


Sponsored link buy the book a "A Lovely Christian Family" Click here to buy now

7. Contribute financially to the family. Money is necessary for survival. Where there is love and money life will be comfortable. Where there is no money it makes it hard for love to survive. Money is not everything, but it is necessary for necessities

8. See your partner as human. You did not marry an angel, you married a person. Human are bound to err in most cases due to misunderstanding, misjudgement and misguidance. We do not deliberately err in most cases therefore give room for misunderstanding.

9. Ask God to help you to stay together. Unless the Lord help you, you are helpless. He alone can help you to prevent divorce. Let the Lord be your everything.

10. There is no perfect family. Every family has one problem or the other. Solutions to problems in marriage are a process and not things you can just fixed over night. There may be a certain area that you do not understand but hold on, God is in control.

Cheers!

No comments:

Post a Comment